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The Best Things in Life, They're Free

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The Best Things in Life, They’re Free Love and Healing are Free but we must do the work. ~Magi Aata Same Cooke recorded a song live at the Copacabana in New York that had been written in 1927 by the team of Buddy DeSylva, Lew Brown, and Ray Henderson for the musical, Good News. The song was entitled the Best Things in Life, They’re Free . These are the lyrics, “Ah, the moon belongs to everyone, the best things in life, they’re free. Stars belong to everyone, they cling there for you and for me. Flowers in spring, the robins that sing, the sunbeams that shine, they’re yours and their mine, ya’all. Love can come to everyone, the best things in life, they’re free. All of the good things, every one of the better things, the best, best things in life, they’re free.” (end of lyrics) The best things in life are free provided you have access to information necessary to get what you want. You can have all the good love you want when you give away all the good love you need. What we hung...
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Our Undiscovered Self

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  Our Undiscovered Self the Scandalous Lie, Part 3, the Conclusion I watched a podcast interview recently where the guests were four women. The hosts asked their guests this question. How do you get your needs for attention met, in person or on the internet? Each one after the other spoke slower with a sinking level of trepidation and shame, “On the internet.” By appearance, all were appealing women by dress, makeup, and features. I felt their feeling of exposure answering the question. One of the alluring features of the internet is that of getting human needs met in ways that satisfy the mind for moments like some drugs satisfy feelings in the body for moments. I want to be clear that the internet is not the problem. It represents the medium of the three things necessary to convict people in court of a crime; means, motive, and opportunity. We should be careful not to get the details twisted. This behavior affects men, too many children, and seniors. None are exempt...
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THIS DREADFUL TRUTH

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  This Dreadful Truth, Part Two of the Scandalous Lie During the hostile takeover of North America, two groups of women lived through sexual abuse so horrible that history has yet to tell this dreadful truth. From West Africa to the colonies of the West Indies and the Americas, slave ship crews raped women with impunity. If the women fought them, they would be killed and thrown into the Atlantic. Once in the New World of savages, slavers discovered new lands to conquer and new sexual prey, the indigenous woman.   For the males of the conquered, many were slaughtered or made slaves. The women of the conquered became the new sex slaves of the conquerors. White men brutally sexually abused indigenous women for sexual pleasure. The Royals of Europe facilitated the African Slave Trade with their militaries and the sanction of the Roman Catholic Church. When the priests later followed, they discovered the existence of the unholy spawn, the half-breed children created by the mi...
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Heal Yourself Now AFFILIATE MARKETNG OPPORTUNITY

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Happy Friday Veterans Day 2022 to Each of YOU and All of YOU, I am Oscar Crawford bringing you the latest information for how we can help more women heal. Heal Yourself Now is an online course and coaching service to mid-30s+ women living with the lingering and chronic effects of childhood sexual and domestic trauma. These effects are extensive and devastating. What happened to women decades ago that went untreated commonly manifests itself as  anxiety, depression, and anger. These can show up in adolescence as the self-destructive behaviors of unprotected promiscuity, sexually transmitted diseases, drug and alcohol abuse, self-harm, and living in fear of what may happen next. Childhood sexual and domestic traumas predispose women to post-traumatic stress disorder, cancer, autoimmune diseases, and shorter life expectancy.  Gynecologic findings include chronic pelvic pain, dyspareunia (pain that occurs just before, during or after sex), vaginismus (vaginal fear o...
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HEAL YOURSELF NOW!

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  I remember the moment I realized I was purposed to do the work that I do. I remember because it immediately came at me with internal thought objections. You are a man. You cannot do this. No one will take you serious. Who do you think you are? Women will not talk to you about this because you are neither a psychiatrist, nor a psychologist. Who authorizes you to do what you do? What authorizing agency authorizes you to do what you do?  I set these intrusive thoughts aside for a moment. There are these things that liberate me and empower me. My developmental years prepared me to be sensitive to the pain of others. I had known significant pain during that period. I thought it was only me. I evolved to discover there had been pain to go around. I discovered that other parents can be brutal to their children, too. Other parents can be both, loving and nurturing. Other parents can simply be indifferent. I discovered boys and girls were being beaten by parents and others. Whe...
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List of Values

List of Values Below is a list of values. This is an extensive list that includes a wide range of values. You may want to shorten it to use in group activities. But hey, we figured we'd give you a thorough list so that you can explore a larger variety of values and find the right ones for your goals. Acceptance Accomplishment Accountability Accuracy Achievement Adaptability Adventurousness Agreeableness Alertness Altruism Ambition Amiability Amusement Amusingness Appreciativeness Art Articulateness Assertiveness Athleticism Attentiveness Authenticity Awe Balance Beauty Being admirable Being dynamic Being earnest Being famous Being folksy Being frank Being methodical Being personable Being reasonable Being skilled Being thoughtful Being understanding Benevolence Big-thinking Bliss Boldness Bravery Brilliance Calmness Candor Capability Carefulness Caring Cautiousness Certainty Challenge Charisma Charity Charm Cheerfulness Citizenship Clarity Cleanliness Clear-headedness Cleverness Co...
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